It's not selfish...it's survival. Get busy and get active. Clean your house, work in your yard, go shopping, exercise, do things with friends, etc. Stay on this board, read the books, read other people's threads, pray, and make a commitment that you will become a better person, a better mother, and a better partner...no matter what!
Great advice antlers! I see so many people, including myself be very impatient and not realize it can easily be 1 or 2 years. I've been looking at this time as a time to really work on getting stronger, healthier, happier. Work on your weaknesses. Do 180s, GAL, change things about yourself that you believe need to be changed. Karen
