well, we are at the point now where he left, went back to psycho ow and had claimed we were done, about a month ago.

of course things have softened, nothing discussed relationship wise since.

there is no line to draw in the sand right now.

if he was looking to come back, i would have boundaries to set, but he has made no mention of it now.

we are really at a crossroads. things cant continue this way and yet, i cannot move forward legally to end it, i just cant.

i want ow to go away, to see he isnt almost divorced, nowhere close.

i know just because she leaves, doesnt mean he will be back, but it would certainly make me feel better.

Last edited by mdoodles; 06/28/09 10:43 PM.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09