he was back, i think

[Yoyowife]

Hi MD,
Way to go getting out and having fun. I don't know if you are Kelli Pickler fan, but this song says it all to a cheating H or BF. I can't help but believe these lyrics will become their lives. Just keep on being the best you can be. Sounds like he's doing a bang-up job of ruining his life.

Best Days Of Your Life lyrics

Songwriters: Pickler, Kellie; Swift, Taylor Alison;

'Cause I'll be there in the back of your mind
From the day we met till you were making me cry
And it's just too bad you've already had the best days
The best days of your life

Ain't it a shame
A shame that every time you hear my name
Brought up in a casual conversation
You can't think straight?

And ain't it sad
You can't forget about what we had
Take a look at her and do you like what you see
Or do you wish it was me?

I'll be there in the back of your mind
From the day we met to the very last night
And it's just too bad you've already had the best days
The best days of your life

And does she know
Know about the times you used to hold me
Wrapped me in your arms and how you told me
I'd be the only one?

I heard about
Yeah, someone told me once when you were out
She went a little crazy, ran her mouth about me
Ain't jealousy funny?

'Cause I'll be there in the back of your mind
From the day we met to the very last night
And it's just too bad you've already had the best days
The best days of your

Life with me was a fairytale love
I was head over heels till you threw away us
And it's just too bad you've already had the best days
The best days of your life

I heard you're gonna get married, have a nice little family
Live out my dreams with someone new
But I've been told that a cheater is always a cheater
So I've got my pride and she's got you

'Cause I'll be there in the back of your mind
From the day we met till you were making me cry
And it's just too bad you've already had the best days
The best days of your life

Of your life, oh, oh yeah
You're gonna think of me
You're gonna think of me in your life
Oh, oh yeah

It's a shame, it's a shame
It's a shame, it's a shame
It's a shame, it's a shame

[bluerain]

I think that if the OW does check his phone, she will see that HE called YOU!!! And if you keep him wondering what your up to, he will probably do it again! Isnt that much better than seeing you called on his call history? hehe.

I think that if you just let yourself have a day off from all of this drama you will have accomplished a lot for yourself!

Good job today!

[mdoodles]

thanks everyone.

that song looks great, i remember kelly pickley from idol...

u are right bluerain, let her see he called me..although he would say it was to call his son.

at this point i think she is still trying to believe him about everything, but obviously doesnt since i know she checks his phone all of the time, for a year now, since she really found out i was still around in some form.

another somewhat busy today for me today, although the early mornings are the worst for me. once i get through these early house, i am ok.

[karen43]

I think that's a good idea to do GALing in the mornings. Your son is 5; I used to push my kids in jogging strollers until I think they were 6 or so, but anyway until they got old enough they could come with me. You go a little slower, but it's good for them too. Just reading a good book could be GALing. But I think any exercise would be good. I used to do workout DVDs when the kids were younger too, like taebo or whatever. Mom's morning out maybe once a week if you find a good place? Check your local paper or the internet for fun ideas. My local paper has a page or 2 each week with upcoming activities and classes. Many are free or low-cost too. Karen

[mdoodles]

thanks. i took my son to the gym with me yesterday morning but they dont have it on sundays...he is too big to push in the stroller any longer, i did it last summer and it was really really hard, especially in my neighborhood, rather hilly!

went to a kids party this morning and just got back from the wedding ceremony....i plan on running a few errands this afternoon to keep us busy and hoping the sun will continue to shine here, would love to go to the beach tomorrow.

[mdoodles]

h just called. i always feel bad when he calls.

because then i wonder, what is he doing, what was he doing, where is he going, i hear he is in his car etc...

i hate this, i really do. i know we all hate these situations we are in...

but i did accomplish my goal of not questioning the weekend and not calling or texting.

i guess that is a good thing for me.

[dolphin_05]

mdoodles, there is a difference in your sitch and mine in that my H does not move in and out of our home. He has stayed away permanently although he has got me sucked back in along the way by the continual warm, warmer, back to cold approach. I wonder if you are at the stage of really having to draw a line in the sand and telling him that this coming back and forth has to stop especially for your son. It must be confusing for him.

[dolphin_05]

and so painful for you, having your heart dragged around........

[mdoodles]

well, we are at the point now where he left, went back to psycho ow and had claimed we were done, about a month ago.

of course things have softened, nothing discussed relationship wise since.

there is no line to draw in the sand right now.

if he was looking to come back, i would have boundaries to set, but he has made no mention of it now.

we are really at a crossroads. things cant continue this way and yet, i cannot move forward legally to end it, i just cant.

i want ow to go away, to see he isnt almost divorced, nowhere close.

i know just because she leaves, doesnt mean he will be back, but it would certainly make me feel better.

[dolphin_05]

I'm hearing you on that point. The day ow goes away will be party day for all our family!