Newbie - first post and ?s

[Faith2010]

Hi all-

I had a great time this weekend. It was much needed. I did my best not to think too much about things.

Before I left Friday morning, H told me he thinks we need to live in separate houses. H told me the date for it is August 1. I figured he was trying to upset me before I left for the weekend. I really didn't respond to him.

H texted me several times, always wanting to know what I was doing. If I didn't answer right away, I would receive a text such as "what, are you too good for me now?" H woke me up with a phone call this morning, wanting to know what we did last night. Honestly, here H is the one having the EA/IA and he checks up on me?

When I got home this evening, H asked if I was happy to be home. I said no (perhaps the wrong thing to say but the truth). H asked again then made a comment that this is the only home I have right now but not for long.

I've read most of Divorce Remedy. I have implemented a lot of what the book talks about. I'm focusing on the last-resort technique. In addition to this, I need to start GALing. Going to my friends this weekend was good, but I need to figure out things to keep me occupied while I'm at home/not working. Does anyone have any ideas on how to find support groups that deal with marital issues (MLC, WAW etc...) or anything along those lines? Although my friends listen and can sympathize, they haven't 'been there, done that'.