The weekend was pretty much uneventful. H came over Friday night -went home to take things and got here after 2 in the morning. His stress levels are rising day by day, he now seems to feel imprisoned by his work. He seems to be ready to break down and collapse physically and I am being polite and detached. Today while he was leaving I told him he needs to look after himself and probably get a few days off work because he looks so tired. He said he will be "doing something about it" as a long term solution. We had lunch with some friends and he told the guy friend (wing man if anynone remembers) he is leaving the night job and hopes the money will be enough. We'll see.
No affection or anything. Sat night, in bed, I told him I cant live with no hugs etc. He hugged me and it didnt feel good. Unfortunately, I can tell now, he is at a very low point in his life and I know not to expect anything from him until he sorts the work thing out first.
The party was very "posh" and I had an ok time. My D has been sick this weekend-nothing serious. My dad seems to be in pain again. I have faith things will work out. K