that is wonderful! I'm glad you got that book, I've heard good things about it too.

and I'm very glad to hear you didn't cry last night. is this an everyday thing? fyi, if H has ANY, and I mean ANY idea that your doing this, it's going to put a burden on him, and I do believe it will put a damper on his feelings of intimacy with you. So, let that be one of your goals to try and focus on the positives and not what your lacking

Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."