Dear H,

There are people in worse marriages than ours who have renewed their relationships and gone on to either a much better marriage or divorce w/friendship.

I have resources that can help if you are interested.

For now, I want to limit our communication to only important topics regarding the kids and finances.

If you are interested in cultivating a new relationship and a new dynamic, that would be optimal to me. If not, I think it is best for both of us to really take our own spaces for a while.

Best,

AK