I agree with sandi. I told H that I wouldn't be his friend, and he said "Thats too bad...", no, whats "Too Bad" is how these people think that they can walk away without repercussions. But you know what, you dont do your friends like this. And if one of your friends treated you this way, Im sure that you would not continue associating with them on the same level, or at all.

I think that its important to remember too that the sad smile is much more poignant than a screaming match, if it comes to you telling her that you wont be her friend.

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...