Maybe you should get together with Jane's exH and see how he is managing to get custody, etc. Different state, I guess?
As for call social care --- at least, you tried. If something had gone wrong (and, thank goodness, it didn't) it would've been on record.
Keep well.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
