WAW - Very confused and devastated - pt 10

[confusedinpa]

Does the 7 year old usually make the final decisions for the family?

Not on "my watch" but she generally differs to him when I wasn't around, even before she filed for divorce. In the past I would have just told him that we were going but since it's her day with the kids I let her decide how to handle it. I didn't want to make her feel like I forced her/them to go

This is part of who she is, she doesn't really press for what she wants, except for leaving and divorcing

A really crappy time for her to choose to stand her ground