Boy can I relate to this...my H is the same way. I'm not a big spender on gifts, etc., so ended up getting him pretty much the same thing year after year. The couple of times I did really go out of my way to get something nice, to me anyway to him it wasn't good enough. A few years ago I really thought I had the perfect gift, binocs, well they weren't exactly what he wanted, they weren't expensive enough is what it came down to, and so he took them back and bought something else that he wanted. And then there was the trip to Vegas that I got him for his B-day and HE didn't want to go, "he'd already been there" yeah 20 years ago. It's kind of hard to buy something for someone when you know it won't be good enough or they don't want it. Why bother was my attitude, also.
Maybe he doesn't feel special and no matter what buy it won't make him feel special. So just smile and spend the day making him feel special.
