No. He is not acting like a H so why would you act like a W? Remember LRT? Don't be at his beck & call. Tell him you were so busy (insert vague GALing activity) that you forgot OR were too busy. Be very nice about it - act "as if" it just slipped your mind.
Me 36, Him 33 M 11yrs, T 15yrs S 8, D 7 ILYBINILWY - 1/09 H moves out 10/09 D to be final SOON I HOPE!