I hate my H

[Done in VA]

Hi Sandi,

Thanks for all the advice. Makes sense & I can do it. My biggest question is MC. MC likes to discuss "changes" my H has seen in me, etc. From everything I've read, it sounds like this is a negative thing. Any suggestions on how to get around this? I'm also thinking MC might be a waste. MC never spoke of WAS Syndrome - not that it is a true medical diagnosis, but I think she should have said - don't cry in front of him, start GALing, etc. She never told me not to talk about R. We started MC in Feb & I never figured out what was going on with H until picking up the DR in April. I think of how much time was wasted. I think MC should have known a little more of what to do vs. not to do based on conversations with H.