Sandi,

I need your guidance if you don't mind my asking. I have been separated from my WAW for a year. I'm going to link up with her for the 4th time next WED 1 JUL so I can have the boys for 2 weeks.

My wife has filed for divorce 5 months ago but hasn't done anything about it. I'd like to ask her to have lunch with me or something like that. Is it too much? Does it sound too desperate? What would be the best approach with her after 1 year of separation? I would like her to notice that I have truly made changes. How do I go about doing this when the only time we'll have is when I load up the kids' bags into my car?

Just wondering if you have any guidance I could use...

JR09


Me:44
WAW:43
Children S13,S11,S7
Married 17 yrs
W left JUN 08
W filed JAN 09
D proceedings dismissed AUG 09
W refiles 1 MAR 11