You know, I'm not sure you did the wrong thing. What you were doing was helping you, but I'm not sure that it was getting you any closer to your goal. But today, you enforced your boundaries. I think the fact that he backed off of his usual might be an indication that it was a good thing. Maybe for once he is going to see what he is throwing away. I don't know what he will do next, but I am thinking it might be different that you are expecting. Be ready for anything!
