I'm not going into the details. Its pointless. I will just say that she is going to refile and I am hiring a L this time. I already have one that I talked to. She will have to have me served. I will not sign a waiver of service this time. I am no longer taking any phone calls from her. I have a scheduled time to pick the kids up each Sunday between 6 and 7 PM. There will be no contact between us going forward. Thats my rule, not hers.

In the mean time, I am moving forward with my life. Whatever happens, happens. I'm not waiting around anymore to see what happens. I have things to do with my life and part of that life includes my kids. I am going to figure out what I want to do with myself and start doing it for me. This is ridiculous.

It is in God's hands. If it is his will, he will make it work. If it is not, then he won't.

I did figure out where I want to live when this lease is up in December. I know where I am going to go to church for me and the kids and I don't care how much W is against it. Not my concern. Unless there is a real true emergency, I won't be calling her back. I'm focusing on my AA and C and getting my career going forward.

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...