BeingMe - I agree with you. She is being incredibly selfish. Selfishness was always an aspect of her personality I had to deal with, but this MLC and A have kicked it up to insane levels. She thinks by being nice (on the surface), all her lying and betrayal with magically be forgiven. I've been incredibly cool about everything, because of our kids. They are already having their world rocked so hard, I just can't bear them worrying about mommy and daddy being angry at each other.
I am really starting to drop the rope and move on. I need to for my own mental health, and so I can be the best father I can be. From what I hear, it'll also probably have the best chance of making my W truly start to contemplate what she's done.
Antlers - thanks for your support!
You got it, buddy!
Dropping the rope is no pressure, no expectations, true giving, and letting go. It's not giving up...and it's not 'not caring' anymore.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
