What's it really all about?

[AlexEN]

Her former love, before me in College, is 2nd EA. He and OM1, with whom I am quite certain there is no contact, both live in same city in the NE! We are in Chicago and effectively bound here for next 10 years, as neither she nor I would ever agree to the other moving out of state with the children. So, at best she might pursue long-distance relationship with OM2, but who knows. I don't like labels, but our IC suspects she is NPD.She is Superwoman.