any kids? i didn't see you mention any from your previous posts. what are you doing with your free time? do you stay at home? maybe it's time you became a little more interesting yourself and appear to have your own secrets. lol i'm no expert by any means, but i know you need to do something to at least draw some attention to yourself.
and don't let your W get to you too much. don't let her see you upset, the usual DB stuff.
and if the approach you are using now isn't working, well you know what they around here.... try something different.
