Wondering how to handle things

[kissak]

ok...so today didnt start out the best it could have.

Let me back up to last night! I went out with a girl friend of mine. All we did was go shopping and out to eat. My H picked up the kids and didnt ask anything about what I was doing.

Last night he texted me a few times commenting that I must be busy or something and that he would stop bothering me...he didnt though.

Well, a few days ago I told him that I had plans for today...didnt tell him what plans, other than I was going to the next town, about an hour away. I told him that I could watch the kids for him to work, but would need him to be back by 11 or 12 to get them. But that I would rather he ask his parents to watch them. Because I didnt want to be too late leaving. (It is his weekend btw with the kids). He said ok.

Well, this morning, he texts me his usual "goodmorning". I texted back. He asked what I was doing and if i was up yet. Then went on to say "i guess you are getting a late start leaving anyway". I replyed yes that I wasnt trying to rush and that I was only leaving about 30 min late. Waiting on clothes to dry.

THEN all heck breaks loose.

This is how it goes....he texted me "thank you"

I said "for what"

He said "dont worry about it"

Basically I asked him what was wrong, if he was having a bad day or something and he said "nope"

Ok, so I know he is pissed or something at me now.

BUT all he kept saying was "dont worry about it"

I preceed to tell him that he is acting very immature and just trying to ruin my day...

He replyed that he was not trying to ruin my day and that he was not acting immature. AND That I made such a big deal on leaving by a certain time this morning and that he had to ask his parents to watch the kids, if I didnt wanna watch them i should have just said so and that the topic was over!!!

OH, I did something I shouldnt have done, but I called him.

I was furious! I asked what his problem was. Basically he said that I made a big production out of leaving early today....which I DID NOT!!

I told him that I Always watch the kids for him when needed....he agreed....I said that his parents NEVER watch our kids....he agreed.

SO, I asked what on earth was the big deal!!!

OH....maybe I just overreacted he said. Then he tells me he is sorry. DONT WORRY ABOUT IT! AND for me to have a good time today and drive safe.



ok....was he ticked that I didnt wanna watch the kids?(not true).

Was he mad because he had to ask his parents to watch them? NO cuz if that was the case, he would have acted mad last night.

Was he angry that I just wouldnt watch them? WHICH I told him i would.

OR do you just think he was angry that he didnt have any control over me and decided to use his best weapon at me for the day....guilt?

Well, it worked.

Basically I told him to tell the kids I love them and good bye.

I havent heard from him alllll day after that!

Which was good cuz I was having lunch with a guy that i met online!!!!

Anybody got any insight on his reaction???? DO you think he is scared he is losing control of me? Really I dont see the problem. I mean, his parents were watching the kids...there was no problem here.