So H is gone to wedding by the time I return home from town this afternoon. Three hours later I get a txt from him"R U coming to the reception"? WTF? He had told me in no uncertain terms the previous night that I was not to go.
I ignore txts and an hour or so later miss two calls-one from him, one from his Mum(she`s at the wedding too)
I ring her and tell her that he told me not to go and I ask her to pass phone on to him as he won`t answer my call.I did proceed to diverge from the proper DB response and tear strips of him. I`ve just had it with his Blame Game, Anger Game,Lat Minute Game. I`ve had it with his lies. I`ve had it with his lack of co operation in the M, in the home, and with the kids. I tell him all that and tell him the game is over.
Later on he texts "I would love to c u. Wud you come over for a drink later" is he for real? I ring him back and tell him its over. I`ve enough of his lies. For a year he`s activiely hated me in my own home. How can he say he`d love to see me now.He says like might have been a better word. I said hate is the right one.
I just so badly needed to vent and honestly, I have found a year of this and trying every possible way for it to work just too damn sad and hard and lonely.
And the game-you`re giong to the wedding/your not going, I want you/I hate you is too hard to play anymore.
I think all there`s left to talk about is when he`ll move out.
