i've been giving a lot of thought to telling her i'm not ready to reconcile... now, since this isn't what i want, because i do, i just don't care when it is, if it even ever happens. BUT, say i do tell her this. what then? i haven't been able to come up with what happens next?
i need some guidance here as i'm a bit lost because it is going against what i ultimately want. i know it's a tactic or technique, but how do i make it work? what should happen after i tell her that?
