Hoop, Valid points but as I stated before I'm not going to go out with someone with the intent of committing adultry. Why can't I just have a friend? If it evolves into something else then yes I could see where there may be a problem. Bottom line, I'm not trying to go out with this woman for the single intent of having sex. She seems interested in me and I am interested to see what kind of person she is. What can it hurt by going out to have a drink or to dinner together?
I would do nothing to jepardize my retirement.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!