We COULD also say that he has learned so awful much from DB'ing that he now knows EXACTLY how to treat a woman and will be the most wonderful date she has ever had because now he is no longer a DAM.
HE will know how to validate her from the first date.
He will know how to GAL if she doesn't want to go out a second time
He will know to look for her "love language"
He will know when to only listen and not give her advice.
This is part of my gameplan for the next person in my life--so many mistakes made in the past with my wife-I will not make the same mistakes again.
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She WANTS to go out with him. She IS an adult. HE is an adult.
Going out is NOT getting married. It is NOT having sex...
Exactly right--going out with someone does not mean having sex necessarily. Why can't I go out with a beautiful woman just for company and get to know each other. Isn't that the way this is supposed to work? I mean if I could just go out and have sex with her that wouldn't be much of a challenge and I wouldn't respect her either. And no, I'm not looking to get married.
M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!
