It must be so sad to be always right then get a second thought.

It's too bad "they" make it so tough to go back. Oh, but we know who "they" is don't we. "They" is not the family, the friends, or the neighborhood, who would see this so called backslide and think less of her for going back on her decision. No, "they" is the fragile ego of herself that doesn't like the taste of crow. As Pogo said, "We have met the enemy and (s)he is us."

So how do we make it easier for them?

"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh