Okay, I see what I did now. In trying to trace down your old posts, I got off on another man's stitch.... Oh me! Well, at least I'm relieved to know there are no children involved. I thought she must have been a child when she had a baby! Anyway, I see where I got so confused about everything. Maybe I can follow along better now.
You do have your hands full with her instability. It is very common for young people who get M and then when the fairy tale doesn't turn out to be what they dreamed, they begin to think of all the things they are "missing" by not being single. They start seeing the M as a jailhouse and so then problems start. A lot of things are going to be based on how quickly she can grow up. I don't mean to sound harsh when I make these statements, but my view......she is "very" young and that is contributing to a lot of her problems. Plus, whatever happened in her past doesn't help.
Talk to you later, Sandi
no arguements here
i know i can only work on myself and pray for her. if there's anything else i'm missing, please let it fly!