Also, Gucci, In fairness, I'd like to tell you what I've seen.
I have known many women who divorced and subsequently worked on themselves, developed new interests and really learned how to be more whole without a R and THEN, they went on to much healthier, fulfilling and lasting marriages.
On the flip side, I have known many men who divorced, jumped into new relationships and either hit the skids over and over or ended up divorced again at least once if not more (plus all of the kids in the middle).
I am trying to sort of bridge the philosophical divide here.
