What's it really all about?

[AlexEN]

Well, I asked:

W,

Why are your thoughts about this different than when you wrote this?

You were correct about my reasons... to work on communications as an end unto itself; I have no problem making it very clear that that is OUR intention. I have no hidden agenda. I accept your decision.

My parents told me on Monday that they could come that weekend to watch the kids.

-A


To which she responded:

My thoughts aren't different...just thought about it more. Again, I have no problem with the concept of working on our communication and rebuilding trust. My concern has more to do with how it might end up feeling about THIS workshop...like we're in the wrong place at the wrong time. I still don't understand the benefit of joining a group of people working on saving their marriages. Why not explore workshops that are more appropriate for our situation? Or commit more time to the process we've been in with Keith and Tom, who already are extremely familiar with our relationship and all of the issues that have caused our communcation breakdowns, etc.. It just seems that we're trying to fit a "square into a circle" with this particular workshop.