John, My advice has nothing to do with morals...it is because you are an active duty SNCO in the USAF. Even if you do not know it there are CMSgt's and 0-6s looking at you and asking questions of your CC and Chief's to consider your stratification among the other SNCOs...with your Bronze Star you will rank high.
Have you been able to decide what you want to do? You really only have one option if you can settle down and think about it...are you going to continue to accept her attitude or not? If not go file and ASK for everything and I mean everything...it is much easier to "give" back than it is to try and ask her for help later...
gucci loafer...for the record. I think you are correct...but AFWAW (as is his wife who is also a SNCO) is in a position where he could be punished or marked down on his performance report and ruin his career if he were to become involved with another woman right now...and should he get a poor reputation as a SNCO he will have trouble finding a civilian job...as big as it is the Air Force is small and everyone knows someone who knows someone who knows your business...there is much more to this than just finding another girlfriend...as long as he is still married.
