I am astonished to see how willing you are to lower yourself to her level. Don't be a snake. Be the proud man that your daughter looks up to.
Not a bit of truth to those statements.
Time to be happy and do what YOU want to do. There isn't one bit of truth that you are "lowering" yourself just because you decide to head in a more positive and smarter direction and deciding to stop trying to win a woman back that cheats, lies and gives you the run around.
It IS NOT being a snake to go out with a woman that wants to go out with you. It doesn't mean you are using somebody for a crutch just because you decide you WANT to see her.
I know plenty of women that are younger than their husbands that things worked out very very well. I know plenty of younger women that are dating or dated older men that were very happy.
I realy don't think the women on here have much room to talk about making wise decisions when their very own husbands are in an affair. Does that mean that nobody should get married since their marriages are not working out?
As I keep telling you. There is NOTHING wrong with you. There hasn't been. You have only thought that there was something wrong with you because of what your wife has done.
Your WIFE is the one that is the snake and has lowered herself. NOT YOU. IT is a total lie and a way of tryingt o control what you do that anybody could evfen hint that you are a snake or you are lowering yourself by taking another path because you CHOOSE to after what has transpired. A man that is a snake is one who is pursuing other women when his wife or lover thinks she is in an exclusive relationship. A man who is a snake PURPOSELY lies to both women to have his cake and eat it too....
Don't let other opinions and control tactics discourage you.
You are a fine man that has tried his best to work this out with your wife. Your WIFE is the snake in this. You have nothing to feel "guilty" about. NOTHING. Your WIFE has chosen this route and now you are accepting it.
Don't buy into the naysayers and gloom and doomers. They are trying to bring you down and push their morals on you. Nobody is tellng them to date or not to date.
