What I've learned about detaching

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Thank you steady. Your point is well taken. Detaching is made difficult for me b/c I consistently worry how my S5 and D2.5 will be impacted by a divorce. As I regain by confidence and self-esteem, I begin to realize that I'll be fine (I'll eventually find someone else if things go south), but again, I worry about the kids. In addition, I always wonder what's going through my wife's through all of this...is this killing her like it is me or is she just happy like a clam? The fact that she hasn't filed tells me she is confuesed and unsure. Who knows.

Thanks,
LFH