"Until he fixes what is broken in himself, he is always going to find himself in the same situation...just on someone elses leash?"
Yes.
"I am a fixer. It sucks. I really want to change that in me."
Not so sure that is a great goal for you to have. I would rather you start to understand it and modify it.
"I have been the fixer in too many areas of my life. If I have to sacrifice something of myself in order to fix someone elses, I do it way too often. I find that I hardly put myself first. And, then, I resent it. I often felt as though I gave to my H and didn't get anything in return."
How do you start to change that?
"Today, out of the blue, I just felt this overwhelming need to feel loved and adored."
Who says you are not?
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.
