Anyway, I agree wholeheartedly that AFWAW shouldn't date until he is D. I wouldn't put it past his WAW to turn HIM in for "cheating" on her.
Silverado
AFWAW, Listen to Silverado...
Please. Even a perception of an improper relationship will ruin your career. You are in a great position to be promoted at least one more time...do not ruin it...I know you know what I am talking about.