With the bankruptcy, it's impossible to not have contact at this point, but actually we do seem to have turned a corner, now that I have really "let go" of the "dream property", and he has committed to seeing that I will keep this house and actually come out very well financially when all is said and done.
I am feeling much more secure and even sort of optimistic, although I will feel better when he really get a handle on how the numbers are going to come out.
I am doint OK, and have been trying to get back into the exercise (water aerobics), and I need to be much more diligent in my meditation and sleep habits. Those two things I think will help me a great deal in my overall moods and comfort.
I got some good deals on clothes for work which were on clearence. So, I am set......
TJ
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