There was a case here in the US a while back concerning a Woman named Susan Smith who was having an affair. The OM told her he couldn’t be with her because of her two kids. She killed both of them by driving her car into a lake with them buckled up in their child seats in the back. Two very precious kids lost their lives for nothing but an emotionally unstable Woman. It broke my heart as I’m sure many others who followed the story.
You ask yourself how a Mother can do something like that to her own kids. Obviously there is some mental illness involved, but the real jaw dropper is the pre-meditation of it all. It wasn’t in the heat of passion, or last minute thought. Take close notice of your W’s actions.
I would just caution you to do everything in your power to gain custody of that baby once it is born. Take notes now, document her behavior, get dates, times, and places. Get any evidence you can to support her instability. Do it quietly, but do it. You need to convince a Judge in the future that your W is a danger to that child. In the meantime, treat her with kid gloves, she’s not stable. Don’t let on to what you intend on doing. Pretend you’re still waiting on her to make up her mind and that you’re devoted no matter what. You may have to really start thinking that this M may be lost and that your main responsibility is your unborn child.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
