Hopeful... Took awhile, but I finished your thread.

Cute wife (check!) LOL
Best friends (check!)
Couple people would be shocked to hear have issues (check!)
H w/family who shut down others completely if they have issues w/them (check!)
Chicago native! (Check!). Still close - 60 min W of ORD
H emotionally and physically checked out (check!)

You are much further along in this journey. I'm (for the most part) a teared up idiot! However, I will say, I would not be this far down the road in this sitch without DR/DB and the advice I've been given.

I have no experience w/MC's but I hate yours!!!


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.