So I did everything wrong again. Why can't I think on my feet? I thought I had handled things pretty well and apparently I didn't. I guess I feel obligated to step in and be available when it comes to my kids. You are not available to your kids. You do this to one up your STBXW in your children's eyes and to still be available to your wife. When you are with your kids. You are not really with them. Your body is there, but your thoughts and mind are completely glued on your STBXW.
D7 was unhappy to see me picking her up after work. She was expecting to see her mom. I think she feels ripped off on her moms time when I am there. Did she tell you this or are you reading her mind too????
D11 had a very good week at church camp but didn't really fill me in on the details. She was kind of quiet and ate. So engage her in conversation and show her that you are interested in her!!!
Kevin
"It is excruciating pain. It is the pain of separation, the pain of loss, the pain of dreams and expectations unrealized. It is the loss and death of a mirage."
