fwiw,

humor and laughing together, are HUGE bonding events for many couples. I think one of H's "love languages" for me is laughing at my jokes even if he has heard them before. I mean it. Almost like foreplay.

When we dated, but were not yet exclusive, I recall another guy I had dinner with totally not "getting me" and I thought, Geez, "h" would have laughed at THAT... so that other guy got "weeded" out...and H became my H.

It matters. Bond with the humor but don't read into it or make it a tactic..Nothing forced. Rent some comedies, watch stand up, or if you can, without it looking like pressure, see a live comic. Laughing together is just some quality time. Make sense?
J-


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change