SP - You have a rough road ahead. You knew it was coming but I doubt there is any of us that could fully of prepared you for that sense of loss and abandonment.
Dbing to me is not all about getting your M back together, i think its main purpose is to help you. Still follow the principals of Dbing but make SP and the kids the main focus. Drop her from your thoughts for a while. ( If you can ). Plan plan plan your next hour, day and week. Dont stop moving forward.
You have more hellish times to come SP. I have sat back and read all your posts, been impressed with the mojo stories but knew deep down that reality was going to be a bitch.
You are strong, allow yourself to grieve and be angry. You will come through this . Just not today or possibly tommorrow. Still come here because heaps of people can help you with the continu ing emotional rollercoaster ride that you have not got off yet.
