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The one thing I've learned from my research and my own divorce, is not to be haphazard with people's hearts.


Where are you coming up with this stuff?
So we have somehow morphed into AFWAW will be haphazard with a 27 year old's heart..

We COULD also say that he has learned so awful much from DB'ing that he now knows EXACTLY how to treat a woman and will be the most wonderful date she has ever had because now he is no longer a DAM.


HE will know how to validate her from the first date.

He will know how to GAL if she doesn't want to go out a second time

He will know to look for her "love language"

He will know when to only listen and not give her advice.




She WANTS to go out with him. She IS an adult. HE is an adult.

Going out is NOT getting married. It is NOT having sex...

There is NO guarantee when two people go out that someone is not going to get hurt.

AGE has nothing to do with this.


Two adults are perfectly capable of making their own decision on whether they want to see each other.

I wouldn't dissuade my own daughter from dating an older man year old.She is old enough to make her own decisions and as a matter of fact, she SHOULD be making her own decisions. She just got hurt in a relationship. She not only survived the hurt but it made her smarter and wiser.... I have no business telling her to go out with or not to go out with. It is her choice.

Almost ever person that I have ever gone out with in my entire life has some relationship baggage and a "special somone" or has come out of a relationship and have some baggage...

ALMOST ALL OF US HAVE BAGGAGE when we are between relationships. All relationships end but the one you are currently in.

Last edited by gucci loafer; 06/27/09 12:07 AM.