Hi - Wow - Just wanted to express how STRONG you sound in your post. I admire all of the work and growth you have obviously done as a person and thank you for sharing all of your insights. They brought me some peace on a very dark day for me. When I come through my separation and eventual divorce from H, I hope that I am lucky enough to meet another person as self-aware as you are.
Blessing to you on your new journey... :-)
Me 39, H 41 M 17, T 21 Son, 4 Bomb 2.09, Two EAs Separated 8.4.09 My Long Story and First Postings