Hi Hopeful. We have VERY similar situations!!! I have to run out, but wanted to say hi and Bookmark your thread for later, so I can read it all, and respond fully. Sandi really got me kickstarted back in November. I think I can benefit by some re-reading of solid advice, as well. Be well, and ill. Be back later!!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.