I wanted to stop by and see how you were doing. I have not had any time for this past week or so.....
I hope you have a great....no......an exciting trip. I would agree with Sandi .... though its hard to do.......it is really nice to NOT deal with the thoughts of H at all. If you can, try to minimize how much you talk about it. What I did, was journal on this site, whenever I would feel the need to talk about the R. Then you have some people who you can speak to that have a very minor role in your current life.
I don't know if that makes sense. I will be around all weekend if you need to vent and I will make sure to reply.
