Sorry...I agree with DQ. This whole scenario gave me the cold chills, because it was exactly what happened to me when I was 27. Ouch!! Trust me, I was not stupid, not an infant and knew what I wanted in life at 27. A 40 yr old divorced man was not the best choice for me in hindsight. I guess that was partly "false advertising" on his part...shame on him.
Anyway, I agree wholeheartedly that AFWAW shouldn't date until he is D. I wouldn't put it past his WAW to turn HIM in for "cheating" on her.
