Ok I had the talk with her. She denies affair, but says she is done. She has zero interest in saving the marriage and wants to end it. We have no money, so she doesn't know how we are going to separate. She says she can go along like we have like nothing is wrong, but figures I wouldn't be comfortable with that. She says she doesn't want to make me sad, but that's it. The therapist told her she already has her mind made up so why bother trying.


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.