My question is,has anyone ever brought their WAS around by standing up for yourself and taking everythinf that is owed to you in the divorce settlement?
1. "...brought their WAS spouse around by standing up for yourself?" Absolutely. It's rule #1 of Dbing. Nobody will love you until you love yourself. Respect = attraction.
2. "by taking everything that is owed to you..." Umm...How far are you talking about going here? If you're taking what is justifiable then yes, that is your right, and WAS has to respect you for it. But if you're out for blood and hire a shark attorney to take 'em to the cleaners then you will likely lose respect.
Originally Posted By: v1olin
she really does not want to pay me child support.
1. I don't know where you live but usually this is a non-negotiable State issue. Check with your attorney.
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