Its not about AFWAW's right to be happy. Its about the poor young girl who does NOT KNOW what she is in for. No matter what if she knows his situation, trust me that she doesn't KNOW what that will mean to her own future, her life, her desires and dreams, if she gets too involved in his life. Can't she be free of his freaking drama?
Why can't he go out with someone who has more life experience and can better handle the drama? There are plenty of divorced women with kids and psycho ex's who will REALLY understand what AFWAW's is going through and who will REALLY understand what it means to pursue a heartbroken man who's wife just left him!
The 27 year old has no clue.
He definitely SHOULD start chasing down some dates and have some fun and detach from his wife. But why can't he pick a more suitable woman to pursue???
Someone his own age with similar life experience!!
Good lord.
DQ
DQ, you make her sound like an adolescent. She's TWENTY-SEVEN -- an adult woman. And it's not like John is 55; he's 39 for gosh sake.
DQ, I love most of your stuff, but I found this post very condescending of this woman -- and of John. Whether or not you approve of dating when you're still married (I personally don't), I would never be so dismissive of a 27 year old mature adult, who's perfectly capable of making her own decisions.
Puppy
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