i happen to think that is a terrific idea - write the letter, write several versions until u are totally thrilled with what u are saying ---- and then decide if u want to send it.

i bet, once u have perfected it, u wont send it. u will have had the pleasure and satisfaction in writing it, it may be enough.

if not, hold it a few days and decide if u want to send it.

me: 31
H:29
Son:5
m:8 years in november
t:10 years
first bomb: 10/06
moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08
ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06
d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08
moved home:3/09 out again 5/09