Thanks for your post on my thread. I am reading through your story. You have certainly been through it and I sympathize with your feelings, especially related to OW. Its a terrible, terrible, demoralization. Will post more soon, after I get fully caught up on your sitch.
For now, wishing you strength.
TD
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
