The W and I are back together under the same roof and she is bound and determined to make the M work this time. She wants/needs it far worse than I do and there's actually a noticeable change in her this time. All the time she was with the OM was hell and she's had been trying to get away from him for some time. She left him mid-May and has found out after the fact how evil he was (cheated on his wife several times, lies constantly, stole from his company). She can't stand him and is a bit afraid of him. There's no way in hell she would ever be with him again after finding out all this new info about him and if she did in the future anyway I would kick her @ss right out the door before she finished saying "I think we need to tal...OUCH! MY @SS!". Things are on MY terms now and if she has a problem with it then she can git 2 git'n.
So far thing are going quite well with us. We are broke as hell but other than that everything is great. The OM got kicked out of the company he was running (the day after she left him) and that company is now tanking which sucks for us since it's her biggest client. This had nothing to do with her.
It appears me pushing for the D caused her to panic and helped bring her back, even though that wasn't what I was trying to do. It's true, the minute you are over them is when they came knocking at your door. It took a couple of weeks or so to entertain the thought of taking her back. I wasn't for it at first.
She thinks I'm the perfect husband now and I plan on keeping it that way. I still have tons of resentment over all that's happened but I'm working on it. I think the little bit of anger I have left keeps me from acting too needy and makes me more confident which is what I was missing from the last couple of times we were together. This time the OM is really out of the picture and may end up in jail before it's all over. She sure knows how to pick them.
Me:38 W:40 Bomb/EA 03/08 Recon twice 1/09 W files for D Story
